To be honest, study life is definitely fun. As a student, throughout my journey until so far, I've met a bunch of awesome people. I do enjoy spending time with them and of course, I'm looking forward in creating more sweet and happy memories with them. Well, if you manage to meet some good people, of course, you will also get the same chance in meeting some bad ones. They are not bad in heart, but they do have some problems with their personalities. I do understand and clearly know about the fact that everybody is different and it's important for you to know and be able to tolerate those differences. However, once someone took advantage on your tolerance and patience, I think, it's time for you to create distance.
I'm not the type of person who supports cold war and I do find that boycotting someone is a very childish thing to do, but somehow, it's the best option for you to make, in order to get rid of all the negative people who do you no good, but only know best in discouraging you.
In my study life, I've come to meet someone who is very negative and often like to compare with others. About comparing with others, sometimes, I also practice that too, but it's only to create more motivation for me to work harder. In her case is, she compares herself with others to create a whole lot of self pity-ness. She's a type of person with a very low self esteem. That's the reason why she like to talk bad about others and also tends to get jealous over a lot of tiny and unimportant things easily. Whenever she compares herself to others, due to her lack of self confidence, she will tend to wish ill on others. She's not the type who be happy on others' high achievements. Besides, she is a righteous person and also like to think that herself knows everything. I don't really mind about her acting like a" miss- know -it- all" because according to Quotes Gate, a wise person never knows all; only fools know everything.
The biggest problem with her is she likes to discourage others. If she thinks something is impossible and others like to give it a try, instead of supporting them, she discourages them by telling them that they won't be able to make it. When others are celebrating joy, she will ruin all the funs by saying unnecessary things. She's not being honest but extremely sarcastic. I knew that she has been through some unhappy stuffs during her young age, but that doesn't mean that she should build her own happiness on somebody else's unhappiness. I don't mind about her talking bad about others and I don't mind about her complaining about every little thing, but I do mind about her being cynical.
You see, everybody has their own problems and things happen for a reason. Even though, there are some few bad chapters written in the story of your life, still, it doesn't mean that your story will have a bad ending. If you are not satisfied with your own life, never take out your grudge on others.
Nobody has the rights to make you feel bad and you certainly also don't have the rights to bring others down.
I, myself also been through a lot. I have a very unhappy childhood. I don't feel like talking about it because it's all in the past and I prefer to look forward. Some part of my life is imperfect, but it doesn't stop me from being positive. You see, if everything in life tends to be happy and perfect, no sadness, then what will be the life lesson for you to learn? How can you improve yourself to be someone better? Imagine on a piece of blank paper, instead of filling it with colours, you also need to draw some lines to create a full beautiful picture.
Scars and wounds shouldn't ruin us but should make us stronger, tougher and also more human. Remember that.
No matter what happens, bad or good, love all your experiences.
No matter in what situation, never practice self pity.
If you can't stay strong, at least train yourself to be brave.
Smile and always let go of things.
Simply Positive.
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